Matthew Hussey here with Love, Life, Quick Question for You. Do you know the nine words

that you can text a man that will make you completely irresistible to him? No, I'm

not talking about sexting. This is much more intelligent because it allows you to keep

your standard and drive him crazy with desire at the same time. I think you can guess what

it is? I'll come back to this at the end of the show today, so make sure not to miss

a minute. I had a question recently, which was, how do you transition from friendship

to love? I'll start by saying, I think the grammar of the question is wrong because you

can have friendship and love at the same time. The real point that people miss is that you

have to go from friendship to desire. That's the thing that's going to make the difference

because, of course, many of us can name people who are great friends and they love each

other, but the real problem is they don't have attraction. They don't desire each other

in that way. Many of us are terrified that if we have a friend and we want to go after

them in that sense, we're going to get the knockback. We're going to get rejected and

it stops us from ever doing anything. It keeps us in a very platonic place. Most of the

women that I meet who are friends with a guy, they tend to go down one of two routes or

both. They are very caring and loving and just they're just a good person to that guy

all the time. That's one way of going. The other way of going is to be more alpha and

male and have banter and almost be one of the guys with that person. Now, this is a problem

in two respects. Firstly, if you're just going down the loving route all the time, in that

sense, you end up being this person who cares for them, but you become almost more like

a mum to that person instead of being someone that they're attracted to. Now, the other

road of being more of one of the guys with that person and having banter and playing around

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