I'm Matthew Hussey and this is Love Life. If you've ever felt like you didn't know the

right words to say to a man to create attraction and chemistry, then you can't afford to

miss what I have for you at the end of today's episode. Stay tuned, because I'm going to

hand you five phrases that are so simple, yet so powerful with men, that you're going

to be furious at me for not giving this to you years ago.

I have an interesting premise for you today and that is that condoms are sexy.

Now very recently I was actually approached by Trojan, who came to me asking me to work

with them on a campaign about condoms. And what I'm about to tell you might be surprised

to hear about, but I'll start where they started with me. They had done research on condoms

to show that 50% of new couples in month one had stopped using a condom and 62% of new

couples in month two had stopped using a condom. Now here's the crazy part of all of these

people, 40% had never even had a conversation with each other about stopping the use of them.

How crazy? So this started this big campaign about sexual health and the use of condoms,

because clearly there are an enormous number of people who still aren't using them when

they should be. I actually believe that in so many cases the idea of the one night stand

is the one that we have to worry less about. Now why is that? Because in a new relationship

you very quickly start to get bonded to someone. You start to feel closer to them, you feel

more intimate, you feel more connected. And what happens is people start to mistake

feelings of connection and trust for safety. My point is that trust in relation to your

biological safety or his is a complete non-sequitur. It tells me nothing about whether there's actually

something wrong with you that can only be found by you going and talking to a doctor. It

has nothing to do with trust. So in this conversation I told you that I think condoms are sexy.

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