Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth.

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages?

I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.

I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.

And I'm Jay Parker, of Hot, Holy and Humorous.

Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.

Welcome back to another episode of sex chat for Christian wives.

Today we're going to talk about something that isn't exactly sex or sex tips,

but it has a lot to do with bringing our best physical, sexual selves into the bedroom. And what we're going to talk

about is taking care of your sexual self. So ladies, what does that even mean? Well, to me, I think

that's your whole self in many respects because we are sexual beings. I think a lot of times we

think we're sexual just in our nether regions.

But God created us so that we have some sensitivity throughout our skin.

We can be and feel attractive in other areas that leads to connection with our husbands.

Though it certainly does include our specific sexual parts, our genitals,

and other erogenous zones. So I think it's kind of taking care of all of yourself,

but we're kind of leaning into how those things impact sex and what is sexual about them.

Yeah, when I think of that question, my sexual self really translates

into my sensual self, because I know when I'm feeling certain ways, it helps me feel sexual.

So for me, it would be promoting care for my body that helps me feel more sensual.

You know, we talk a lot about other aspects of sex,

not just our bodies. We talk a lot about how sex can be spiritual, it's emotional, it's

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