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I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.

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Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian wives. What do you call it when you give extra attention to your appearance? Maybe you have a beauty treatment, pull yourself together,

put your face on, pridify, primp, spruce up, gussy up, dress up, sleigh. And what about all that special grooming you do that is related to sex?

You know, grooming your pubic hair, shaving your legs or underarms, or even using a special lotion that makes your skin ultra-soft.

We have discovered another word you could use for all of this. Tidivate.

Which doesn't mean what you might think it means. To titivate is to make small enhancing changes or to make oneself look

attractive. For some women, titivation is a daily habit, and for others of us, and this includes me,

it takes intention to remember to do it now and then. Let's start by talking about why wives

might titivate in the first place. Self-confidence is a big one for me. Just things that make me

feel better about myself, whatever that is. I mean, sometimes

that could be putting on makeup or styling my hair or shaving my legs. Sometimes it's those things

that are like, you know, putting lotion on that makes me feel soft and feel good about my body.

So just feeling like I am kind of my best self or at least

a better self. I'm still me, but I'm just kind of, you know, up in my game. I do agree that

self-confidence is a big reason and record, even though we're not video recording this, because by now my friends expect

me to wear lipstick. So, but I do think sort of a combination of the confidence and the sex

part is that putting some effort into your body or how you look or how things make you feel

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