Welcome to the Tlaub Honor and Vacuum Podcast for our special Start Your Engines Edition. This is the last Thursday of the month and that means Start your engines edition.

This is the last Thursday of the month,

and that means that our podcast,

at To Love Honor and Vacuum,

is going to be geared specifically for men.

But of course, women, you are more than welcome to listen to because hey we just like to

include everybody I'm Sheila from to love honor and vacuum.com where we like to talk about

how to make marriage into a passionate adventure and not just a to-do list and I know that's what a lot of guys

would like to like how do we up the passion in our marriage and so for this

podcast I am bringing on my daughter Rebecca and her husband Connor who both work for the blog as well.

And we want to talk about how do you know what constitutes good sex advice.

So hey, Becky and Connor, welcome to the podcast. Hello.

All right so Becca this was actually your idea that we should do this this so why

don't you explain what the issue is maybe even with an example?

Okay, okay here's the thing I work on this blog where we talk about sex a lot and we talk about marriage a lot

But the thing is we also run up into a lot of other places offering

advice about sex and a lot of books a lot of bloggers a lot of articles online

and a lot of the advice is not very good.

Right. For instance, in love and respect, women are encouraged to have sex

with the logic of, well, it doesn't even take very long so just

do it. Yeah why would you not do something that makes him so happy multiple owes

and so yeah exactly when it takes like only five minutes well I don't think he gives a time

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