Welcome to the love honor and vacuum podcast. I'm Sheila Ray

Greguar from the to love honor and vacuum block where we like to talk about how

to make marriage into a passionate adventure and not a giant to-do list.

And it is March, which means we're getting into spring,

and I've been talking about some new things on the blog,

we're starting a new series on community

and how to have community,

because a lot of people are just kind of lonely

but today I'm going to do something a little bit different my son-in-law Connor who is

our tech director and who always puts these podcasts together after I make a really big mess of the

recording. A number of you said that you really liked his editing last week where he threw

in a bunch of her. That's what she said, bloopers. I haven't even listened. I'm scared to because I don't know which ones he left in, but he is having a midterm the day after we record this when he's supposed to be editing it and so instead of having a big

conversation with Rebecca and with my husband about community which is what I wanted to do

this week I'm actually going to do something kind of necessary which is I'm going to try to work

through some of the backlog of our reader questions. I get sent so many reader

questions in and my good friend and ministry director Tammy puts them in a folder all categorized for me and I think I have a backlog of like 150 at least.

She doesn't even put some of the ones in there that I've already answered.

So this is just brand new questions.

But it is easier to edit these podcasts when it's only me speaking and not a big conversation.

So we're just going to take a stab at a whole bunch of these and see how many we can get through.

A woman asks, is it okay to have sex with my husband that I'm separated from?

She says, my husband left me and our children over a year ago now and she has a legal separation so that he would help to support them

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