So this video is going to be a little different.

I don't have a script for this one.

I thought I would share with you something a lot of you have been asking about, which is to

let you in on something really big that's happened for me in the last couple of months, and my wife Audrey, which is that we welcomed into the world our son.

And I don't normally make videos like this.

Normally I will make an instructional video and I'll have a bunch of points set out that I want to talk to you about.

And in this one, I thought I would make it far more casual and just talk to you about what my

experience of this has been. I know many of you have been with me for many years on this journey.

For those of you that are new here, I'm Matthew Hussey. If you don't know me,

I've been spending almost two decades of my life coaching people in their love lives. I help

thousands of people a month find love in my love life coaching group. I created Matthew AI,

the world's leading AI authority on dating and relationships. I wrote two New York Times

bestselling books on the subject of love

and dating. And this is the first time I've been married and a parent in all of that time.

It's a strange one doing what I do for a living because, you know, when I was single,

everyone said to me,

why aren't you in a relationship? And my answer was the same as yours, presumably, as so many of you,

which is I haven't found the right person yet. It hasn't worked out for me yet. You know,

it's never quite felt right or it didn't work out when I wanted it to. And when I was in a relationship, you know, people would start asking me, so, you know, when are you going to have

kids? You're going to have kids. You'd make such a great dad. It's funny, I was always quite scared

of the big forms of commitment like marriage and kids. You know, I always thought that was such a

huge leap in life to make that decision. And it was a decision that terrified me, kind of on both

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