People so often just want to analyze, like, do you think this person is a narcissist?

Why do they do this?

What reason would they have?

They sound understanding.

Eventually, it's like, it doesn't really matter.

I see people get so lost in the web of trying to crack the code of someone's

thoughts and mind read. And they said this though. But eventually it's like, what's the actual

difference to you if it doesn't manifest in any actual different actions if they treat you like they don't care, but they make all

the right noises about it. It makes no difference. We have to be present with the way that our life

actually is, not how we would like it to be, and what someone has for the 10th time promised us it will be,

but it's not actually showing itself to be true.

We have to look at our life the way it is,

and we have to check in with ourselves and our feelings and say,

what is my experience of this? The person I'm with keeps telling me what my experience is,

or how good I have it, or that I'm making too much of things or that I'm crazy

or that they'll change. But what is my actual experience of this? And come to think of it,

you know, a good barometer sometimes can be other people in your life and how they make you

feel. And hopefully, you know, if you have the skill of putting good people in your life,

some people, you know, they make awful mistakes when it comes to their relationships, right?

We're all capable of that.

And we also often make awful mistakes when it comes to family because family are the, you know, friends,

that's saying friends are the family we choose right well family are the

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