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Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 21 January 2026
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
Today’s episode is a proper grab bag—in the best way. If you’ve been feeling stuck on where you can actually meet people in real life, it explores the kinds of places that don’t just give you “options,” but actually help you grow as a person (and why that matters more than ever).
It also tackles one of the most painful relationship realities: where there’s real love, the relationship is good . . . but one incompatibility makes it impossible. What do you do with that kind of heartbreak when no one is the villain?
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to Love Life. Today is an assortment of interesting topics. We're all over the place today. |
| 0:09.8 | We talk about where you can go to meet people if you're struggling to meet people. We talk about what to do in a relationship is one where you love each other, but there's one incompatibility that means that it can't work. |
| 0:22.6 | We talk about two-month intense relationships that break your heart at the end of them and what to do and how to not blame yourself. |
| 0:31.4 | We have a love life line caller. There's all sorts of interesting things in this episode. |
| 0:35.5 | I think you're really going to enjoy it. |
| 0:37.0 | And if you haven't already, make sure you go and sign up to my Year of Love live event. |
| 0:41.7 | It's completely free this event. We have thousands of people from all over the world joining. |
| 0:45.5 | You can sign up now at mh yearoflove.com. That link again is mh yearoflove.com. |
| 0:57.0 | Welcome back to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussie. |
| 1:03.1 | We are going to, I'm calling this episode, I haven't found a pithy name for it. |
| 1:08.5 | Matt's grab bag, is that good enough? It's going to be an |
| 1:13.6 | assortment of things that we have found scouring the internet, questions you have sent in a |
| 1:19.7 | love life line where we, you know, deal with a question in real time. So there's going to be lots of |
| 1:25.8 | things. David, the producer, is over to my right and is |
| 1:29.1 | going to be bringing me a couple of things that he feels are pertinent. So here we go. David, |
| 1:34.4 | will you play the voice note for Love Lifeline? If you want to ever send us a question to be |
| 1:40.3 | answered on Love Lifeline, you can email podcast at Matthewhussey.com. |
| 1:45.8 | And if you are one of our Love Life members, we skip you right to the front of the queue there. |
| 1:51.0 | So Love Life members, make sure you send in your voice notes. |
| 1:55.1 | This one is from Morrow. |
| 1:57.6 | Hi, so I'm 25. My current ex is 24. We have both been divorced before. We both have |
| 2:04.7 | pretty traumatic pasts. We started dating two months ago. Things got very intense and passionate |
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