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The Girl Defined Show

Should a Christian Single Woman Pray for Her Future Husband?

The Girl Defined Show

Bethany Beal and Kristen Clark

Girl Defined, Christian Teen, Girldefined, Christian Advice, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Christian Dating, Womanhood, Society & Culture, Christian Woman, Christian Girl

4.22.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2024

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Ep 163 - The two of us used to be HUGE proponents of the
"praying for your future husband" concept. I, Bethany, wrote letters and prayers for my future husband from age 14-30 when I got married. That's a lot of time spent thinking and dreaming about someone that might not have even existed.

Is it a good idea for single Christian women to focus on a future husband?

In today's episode, we're going to unpack the pros and cons of praying for your future husband.

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0:00.0

Today on the Girl the Fine show, we are talking about whether or not single Christian women should pray for their future husbands.

0:05.2

That is something that I did. I literally wrote an entire box of prayers and letters to my future husband

0:11.0

hoping, dreaming, praying that one day this man would come into existence

0:15.0

and I could gift him these letters.

0:16.8

And now as a woman who's been actually married for several years, I look back and I'm like,

0:20.9

what is that the best idea? Is that biblical? Like, is this a good thing for single

0:25.6

women to do? I mean, you think praying, like, of course it's always good to pray, but is it actually

0:30.3

good to pray for a man that may or may not exist. Let's jump in.

0:35.0

Hey Sisterhood, it is Kristen and Bethany here.

0:40.0

We are sisters and so pumped that you're joining us for this conversation because for us this is kind of

0:44.1

like full circle yeah when we first start a girl to find we talked a lot about praying

0:49.3

for your future husband the power of praying for him strategies to pray for him five ways to

0:53.5

pray for him a free download to pray for him I mean we had it all this is probably like

0:56.7

eight nine I don't know ten years ago and we've had a lot of time to think in fact I

1:01.7

am coming on 13 years of marriage

1:03.8

which is crazy so even back then when we start a girl to find I had only been

1:07.0

married for a couple years and I was fresh off of that like dating before that

1:11.0

praying for my future husband and so as time has gone on and we've

1:14.3

talked to a lot of single women and just re-evaluated our own hearts and our

1:17.3

singleness and this whole idea and this kind of cultural Christian push

1:21.5

for single women to pray for your future husbands.

1:23.7

We've had some conversations and we're like, you know what?

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