Today on the Girl Design podcast we are talking about a masturbation porn

erotica sexual struggles do they disappear when you get married there is this

assumption out there that marriage will solve all of the sexual struggles.

It doesn't matter if you've been looking at porn for years and years as a single woman.

Once you get married and your prince charming comes and you are just,

whah!

Then you are no longer going to struggle and news flash for everyone who is married or

wants to be married you know deep in your heart that is absolutely not true sexual struggles do not disappear just because Mr. Hotty comes in and

whisked you off your feet. Whips your feet, whisked whatever. It doesn't disappear

and so we need to talk about how can we tackle these sexual

struggles and not wait for a life season to change to cure them because it's not

going to work. Let's dig in and let's figure out how to find freedom.

What's up Sister Hood?

It is Kristen and Bethany here.

And I have a confession right off the bat.

I literally thought that a lot of my sexual struggles would disappear when I got married because here's the de.

I remember like the culture that we were in like we kind of grew up in like,

like yes it was purity culture which is like this big controversial thing now like what is

purity culture I'll drop the link to the episode we did we talked all about it yeah I'm purity culture but in many ways

like there was this push of like okay the purity ring and saving sex for marriage and like a woman's identity is almost like found in her level of pureness and like the white dress at the wedding and like I remember feeling that like wow like my godliness is like totally

tied to like my level of purity and the sexual struggles that I had wrestled with in singleness I

remember thinking like okay like once I get married like all of these struggles like the things in my mind that I'm struggling with the lust like it will go away

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