Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. So someone recently

deemed me and she said,

can you please, please, please,

please, all right, that's getting annoying.

Do an episode on your podcast about sexless marriages.

And I was like, yes, why didn't I think of that

before I mean that's such a common thing and I have so much experience with couples

struggling with lack of sex in their marriages.

So, all right, she didn't say please at all.

This episode is about sexless marriages

and I want to do it family feud style. You probably think I said family food. I said

family food. I was trying to say that because I say a lot of words wrong. Family feud

it's an old game show from the I think 70s to 80s

90s I don't know if it's still on but basically it's like this giant world survey

and then based on the topic this dude says survey says and then on the board you could see in

what order the most popular answers are.

So first let's talk about why our marriages are sexless and I think the number one answer survey says

is anger and resentment.

Now listen, there is no way that you are going to want to have sex with someone if you are mad at them.

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