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Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Sex Toys

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7885 Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2017

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

About this episode . . .

Today we're talking about marital aids, often known as sex toys. Is it okay for Christian couples to use sex toys?

When we think of sex toys, the vibrator is what usually comes to mind. Most of our conversations focuses on vibrators, but there are also things like nipple clamps, penis rings, dildos, butt plugs, masturbation sleeves, and more.

The Bible doesn't say anything about sex toys. There is no "Thou shalt not use a vibrator," nor is there a toy mentioned in the Song of Solomon. There is no specific instruction that we are to use, or not use, sex toys.

  1. Why do so many couples use sex toys in the marriage bed. What do they think it adds?
  2. There are good reasons to use sex toys, and there are good reasons to avoid them. So how can a Christian couple decide whether sex toys are acceptable for them to use? What are the questions we should be asking ourselves?
  3. If we decide to use them, is there anything we should be on the lookout for to be sure we are still using them in a way that is consistent with God's plan for our sexual intimacy?

From the Bible . . .

What does God have to say about sex toys?

The Bible doesn't say anything about sex toys. There is no "Thou shalt not use a vibrator," nor is there a toy mentioned in the Song of Solomon. There is no specific instruction that we are to use, or not use, sex toys. A Christian couple should approach this issue prayerfully, in consideration of Biblical principles and with the goal of intimacy.

Resources . . .

Why I Don't Use Sex Toys - Hot, Holy & Humorous

How Do I Eliminate Marital Aids and Orgasm Naturally? - Bonny's OysterBed7

What If the Batteries Died? A Sex Toy Story - Bonny's OysterBed7

3 Ways a Vibrator Can Help Marital Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife

Batteries Included: Sex Toy Use? - Intimacy in Marriage

Can Christians Use Sex Toys? - To Love, Honor & Vacuum

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives.

0:12.3

We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth.

0:15.8

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage?

0:20.1

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

0:23.0

I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife.

0:25.3

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

0:28.0

I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7.

0:41.7

Today we're talking about marital aids, also known as sex toys. And the question is, is it okay for Christian couples to use sex toys?

0:47.5

The Bible doesn't tell us whether marital aids are prohibited or permissible.

0:52.0

So how can a Christian couple decide whether it's okay to incorporate them into their lovemaking?

0:57.6

And folks, this is an area where the four of us don't have the same views, so buckle up, grab your coffee, and join us for this episode of Sex Chat for Christian Wives.

1:07.1

All right, my friends, let's start by talking about why people are even interested in marital AIDS. What's the appeal?

1:16.8

Well, it's something different. It's something a little bit exciting. It's, you know, after you've been married a few years, things can seem ordinary.

1:28.3

So I think sometimes it's just something to take you out of the ordinary.

1:32.3

And I think if there are chronic illnesses or health reasons, that might be another.

1:41.2

But, you know, maybe we should define what is a marital aid or a sex toy we have vibrators

1:47.4

penis rings uh masturbation sleeves other fun stuff oh is that a new one bonnie that's a new one

1:57.1

for bonnie i know i'm the little Miss naive girl.

2:02.2

Oh, well, I cannot say the same of myself.

2:06.1

And there are plugs for your rear end.

2:10.2

I mean, there are all sorts of things.

2:11.7

There are dildos.

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