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Tommy says we got a priority call here.

Courtney is upset.

Courtney is upset because she's been ghosted and can't figure out why.

What's going on?

So I've heard you guys do your second date update before.

Yes.

And, you know, why, like, somebody didn't get a second date.

But I was seeing this guy, Derek, for, like, three weeks.

So we went on three dates, and we were texting every day and he even started calling me babe.

So, you know, I thought we were on the same page.

And then he just vanished, disappeared.

So I need a fourth date update. All right. So for three days you guys are going out he starts hitting you up with a a babe on the third date like hey babe will you pass the blank blah blank yep yep that's a major offense right there yeah it sounds like derrick puts the d in d bag. There's your sound like for that.

But it's promo.

Here's what I'll say.

I think the third date is a very pivotal date.

The first date and the third date might be the most important dates you go on in your

relationship other than like, you know, spending the rest of your lives together god willing if that happened but the first day it's like deciding whether or not you even like this person and then the third date i feel like kind of establishes whether or not you see a relationship with this person so i feel like he maybe just kind of was like okay we made it to date three i don't know if i necessarily this going forward. And I'm just going to be a little wussy.

And I'm just going to ghost instead of being honest about my feelings. But he babed her. So we actually just had this debate on Love Island where Amaya Papaya was getting flack for, you know, calling her partner babe and love. And then her now partner, Brian, stepped up and defended her and just said listen in our culture it's very normal to be

affectionate with your language and call people babe and love and honey or whatever so maybe he was

just you know it's just how he grew up and he normally just calls people that's true the pet names

can be very different from different people I know people who call everybody babe everybody love but

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