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Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

S17E8: Girl Code: Unofficial Rules that Black Women Should Live By

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Cultivating H.E.R. Space

Education, Self-improvement

4.71.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2023

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Hey lady, no matter where you are in life or what age you’re currently enjoying, we all know there aren’t any rules to life, but there are social graces that help us journey together. Especially, if you’re a woman or femme. Girl code can seem superficial but is real and actually a useful way to be in relationship with other women. Whether they are your friends or just other women out here living in the world, there are things that we as women do and just don’t do. While some things change, some things stay the same, and being a genuine person is always going to be in style.

This episode is interactive! Check us out on Instagram and let us know what your girl code absolutes are and what are some of your girl code dealbreakers.

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“My girls...Make me smile a little brighter, make me laugh a little louder, and make me live a little better.”

- Anonymous

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Transcript

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0:00.0

On this week's episode of Cultivating Her Space, everybody now starts talking shit about this particular friend, right?

0:11.2

Are you going to be the friend who joins in on the talking shit?

0:16.0

Mm-hmm.

0:17.0

And if you are, that's a sign to kind of step back and you all have to assess, why are we talking shit about this person?

0:26.0

Mm-hmm.

0:27.0

What's the context, right?

0:29.0

Is what we're talking about, something that maybe we need to call that person in, to kind of have a conversation with them about it?

0:39.0

Or is it that maybe we don't need to be friends with this person if we're clearly all not agreeing with what they're doing, for sure?

0:50.0

Today's episode is sure to provide you with motivation, inspiration, or a fresh perspective.

0:55.0

If you have any aha moments or appreciate anything from this episode, please leave us a review to let us know we're on the right track.

1:04.0

Also, we release episodes every Friday, so be sure to subscribe on iTunes and visit CultivatingHerSpace.com to access our exclusive after show and other bonus content from the Patreon tab.

1:20.0

Welcome to CultivatingHerSpace, a podcast dedicated to uplifting women like you.

1:26.0

We're your hosts.

1:27.0

Dr. Dominique Bursard, a college professor and psychologist.

1:31.0

And Terry Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker.

1:35.0

In a world where black women are often misrepresented and misunderstood, please join us as we initiate authentic conversations on everything from five boys to fake friends.

1:47.0

And create a safe space where black women can just be.

1:54.0

Hey, lady.

1:55.0

It's Terry here from the CultivatingHerSpace podcast.

1:58.0

I'm hosting a free podcasting masterclass where I'm going to teach you how to create your impactful podcast and how you can generate multiple streams of income.

2:07.0

You can visit podcastwithterry.com to register for free.

2:11.0

I hope to see you there.

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