Rupture & Repair, Nested Model of Attachment, and Big Dick Energy with Taune Lyons
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 8 September 2023
⏱️ 70 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, John interviews Taune Lyons, a licensed marriage family therapist, about attachment styles and how they impact our relationships of all kinds - not just romantic. They also start processing what was happening in real time during the interview, unintentionally demonstrating what happens in therapy rooms. And finally, John hears the term "big dick energy" for the first time. You can find Taune on Instagram @taunelyons or her website: www.Taunelyons.com
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own |
| 0:04.3 | rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life |
| 0:08.9 | lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose |
| 0:16.2 | because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. |
| 0:18.8 | You have a lot to say and I think we're going to help a lot of people today because what we're going to talk about is something that has helped me tremendously in my relationship. |
| 0:31.0 | Attachment styles. So not just attachment styles. |
| 0:33.8 | So not just attachment styles, but we have an angle today, correct? |
| 0:37.6 | That's right. |
| 0:38.6 | Nested model of attachment styles. |
| 0:40.8 | So not just... |
| 0:41.8 | What do you mean by that? that yeah it's a term from Jessica |
| 0:44.5 | firm who wrote the book Poly secure have you read that no no no it's a really |
| 0:49.4 | one for monogamous folks too. |
| 0:55.8 | But she talked about it. Wait, so wait, what is probably secure about? |
| 0:57.6 | I mean obviously, |
| 1:01.6 | poly, being secure in a poly relationship, I'm assuming, right? |
| 1:05.6 | Yeah, yeah, so it's about, yeah, it's about consensual autonomy so it doesn't have to just be |
| 1:10.8 | polyamery, but it is about any kind of relationship style that's not monogamous, |
| 1:18.0 | or you can be monogamous, and how to be secure in that and just navigating it from all these different ways, not just the one relationship, |
| 1:29.0 | which is how to pick them and look at what attached to us, but also globally and their society and communities and culture and families. |
| 1:37.0 | And this, I mean I don't even think this was a thing like 15 years ago or I mean I guess it was but it wasn't |
| 1:46.7 | I mean there weren't books about it it's not something that you know is mainstream. |
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