3 Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 11 September 2023
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, John talks about three big signs your relationship is in trouble, and how you and your partner can come together and fix them before it's too late.
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Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own |
| 0:04.3 | rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life |
| 0:08.9 | lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose |
| 0:16.2 | because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. |
| 0:18.8 | Okay before we get into the three signs that your relationship may be in trouble, |
| 0:27.0 | I just want to remind you the Angry Therapist premium, five bucks a month, commercial free, and you get serious that's four bonus episodes a month |
| 0:36.5 | just go to the angry therapist dot com forward slash premium okay sign number one sign number one, sign number one is, you feel unheard, unseen, possibly unsafe. |
| 0:52.0 | After, I want, I want to emphasize the after piece after you have expressed that you feel |
| 0:58.7 | unheard unseen possibly unsafe. |
| 1:02.8 | So it's not just that you feel these things in your relationship, but you have expressed |
| 1:08.3 | them. |
| 1:09.3 | I think a lot of people feel unseen or they feel invisible. They say nothing and it's a giant hash in their relationship |
| 1:20.2 | and they just assume okay this is not for me or it's not going to work. |
| 1:24.0 | You have to express your experience, right? |
| 1:29.0 | So if you feel unseen, if you feel invisible, if you feel unheard, and you've expressed it, right? |
| 1:37.6 | It is a concern of yours and you don't like how you feel in this relationship and your partner does nothing about it. |
| 1:46.4 | That is a red flag, right? |
| 1:49.0 | That is a sign that your relationship is in trouble. |
| 1:51.7 | Now, also, not to make it more complicated, but relationships are complicated. |
| 1:57.1 | How much of you feeling unseen, unheard, unsafe is yourself? How much of it is distorted thinking? How much of it is |
| 2:02.8 | distorted thinking, how much of it is jumping to conclusions, |
| 2:06.0 | how much of it is on you, your story, your wiring, right? You're not |
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