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Welcome back from Rebecca.

And I'm Gabe.

And we hope you guys are doing great.

Yes.

Moving through April.

Yeah, we're having a fun season.

Lots of planning.

Lots of plans in store because our daughter's getting married. Yes, she is. In the fall or I guess late summer in August. Yes, she is. And so we're trying to get some, you know, some of the big stuff locked down. Obviously, the venue, food, you know, things that are... Invitation. Dress. She said yes to the dress. She just had her bachelorette party, which was really fun. She loved it. And like a whole weekend. So, but anyways, it was really... It's been a fun season to just, like, watch our kids in all different, like, arenas. You know, like, our son has been married for a few months now and just

learning the whole like first year of first yeah as a husband we've got joy in middle school

you know she's been cheering uh since fall in football and then basketball and then musicals

like we talked already about that but it's wild that even our oldest Kade at 25, you know, still he's he's he's the best, man. He like has initiated with laundry. That's right. Staining his clothes as well as wanting to clean his clothes. That kid goes through probably three to four outfits a day. He comes home from school. He changes, comes down,

wants to have a snack. After a snack, he goes up, changes, comes down for dinner. So at least three.

And then if he notices like one of us is doing laundry, he goes up and just finds clothes clean,

mostly clean. Mostly clean. And brings them back down and puts him in a basket because he's like, if you're doing washing clothes, then I should be too. That's right. Or takes the clean clothes. I've just pulled out of the dryer. Haven't had time to fold or put away and he'll grab all those, take them up, even if they're my clothes, or your clothes. And we can't find our clothes. And shove them into his drawers and claws.

So he's trying to be a helper, but honestly, we are having to go up there a million times and figure out where things are that are missing. I don't know some of you're judging us. You're like, you should train him better. Like you should have pictures and labels on the drawer. I do. Okay. I've done that. I've printed the pants, and it says pants.

In pants drawer.

The t-shirt, the underwear.

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