Q&A - Sex Tips, Fantasy, Refusing Sex & Elusive Orgasm
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 19 April 2023
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold of an elusive orgasm.
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From the Bible
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 (NASB)
Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. 1 Corinthians 7:3-6 (NKJV) - but see the definition and examples for deprivation HERE
Resources
- 75 Ideas for Spicing Up Your Sex Life - Honeycomb & Spice
- How To Tips - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design by J. Parker
- 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle
- Foreplay – Webinar
- Getting in the Mood Webinar
- Oral Sex Webinar
- 280+ Illustrated Sex Positions | Christian Friendly Sex Positions
- Packing the Suitcase Sex Position - Christian-friendly Sex Positions
- Dragonfly Sex Position - Christian-friendly Sex Positions
- Games & Sex Dice for Couples - Married Dance Online Store
- 3 Benefits to Playing a Bedroom Game - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- How to Fantasize About Your Spouse - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- How to Get Rid of a Fantasy You Don't Want | The Forgiven Wife
- Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- What Is Emotional Safety? (and What Does It Have to Do with Sex?) - Knowing Her Sexually
- Episode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg
- Sex Positions with Clitoral Stimulation - Christian-friendly Sex Positions
- 6 Steps to Learn to Orgasm with Your Husband - Honeycomb & Spice
- Forget What You Look Like While Making Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns
- Orgasm Webinar
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Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus)
Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 0:19.8 | Welcome back to Sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:22.7 | Today we are going to do a listener questions episode, which we haven't done for a while. |
| 0:27.7 | So you will hear us talk about questions about resources for new ideas for sex, fantasizing |
| 0:34.4 | during lovemaking, when is it okay to say no to sex, and struggling to have orgasms. |
| 0:40.7 | So hang on to your hats and let's go. |
| 0:44.0 | Gay, let's start with you. |
| 0:45.4 | What's your question that you chose? |
| 0:47.3 | Okay. |
| 0:48.2 | This listener asks, do you have any suggestions for places to find practical tips for sex like techniques? |
| 0:56.1 | I'm nervous to Google too much, but my husband and I are interested in trying new things, |
| 1:01.2 | but can't always come up with what those new things should be. |
| 1:04.4 | Most advice I see is vague telling you to communicate what you want with each other, |
| 1:08.8 | but what if I'm not sure what it is because I don't know. Yeah, so that's a good question. I mean, if you just with each other, but what, if I'm not sure what it is, because I don't know. |
| 1:12.6 | Yeah, so that's a good question. I mean, if you just sort of Google that, you might, you don't know |
| 1:16.2 | exactly what you'll end up with. But I feel like we have, some of you all have, and we also know of |
| 1:23.3 | some other resources that could be helpful to this listener. I have a post on my website that is |
| 1:29.9 | 75 ideas for spicing up your sex life. And they're not whack-a-doodle ideas like hanging from |
| 1:37.2 | the sandaliers. There are simple things like something gay you've talked about, you know, just |
| 1:41.8 | putting your head at the other end of the bed, you know, so that there there's a little bit of spice but there's also some tame stuff for people who are |
| 1:47.8 | just kind of starting to try some things that's a good resource yeah i also have quite a few things |
| 1:54.1 | on my website i actually have a blog category called how to tips so if you go to hot holy humors.com and you scroll down and you |
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