What We'd Tell Your Pastor (About Sex)
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 2 May 2023
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
While some Christian leaders and churches address the topic of sex well, too many either mishandle it or ignore it altogether. We here at the virtual kitchen table have heard the stories, good and bad. And we're bringing our collective wisdom today to share what we wish more churches knew about sex and how to encourage church leaders to talk more biblically, authentically, and respectfully about it.
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From the Bible
Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. James 3:1 (A heavy verse for all of us who dare to instruct others publicly. May God give us wisdom.)
Resources
- Episode 50: Happily, with Kevin A. Thompson
- Will Your Pastor Preach on Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous (with a sermon on sex from Kevin A. Thompson)
- A Message to Your Pastor (and Mine) - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Episode 118: Sex Is for You Too
- Authentic Intimacy - Resources for Leaders
- One Way Churches Could Really Help Marriages - Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com)
- Invite J to Speak! - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Sexual Clarity for Christian Women Course w/Bonny • Strong Wives
- Intimacy Mentoring w/Chris Taylor - Honeycomb & Spice
- Why Abuse in the Church Makes Me Crazy - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Samson Society
- Episode 22:: Sexual Harassment #ustoo
- Episode 64: Healing from Sexual Abuse, with Mary DeMuth
Note: All women who shared quotes and scenarios with Bonny gave her permission to share them on this podcast.
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a five-star rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives (Bonny Burns)
Honeycomb & Spice (Chris Taylor)
Calm.Healthy.Sexy. and The Healthy Life Toolbox (Gaye Christmus)
Hot, Holy & Humorous (J. Parker)
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. |
| 0:04.0 | I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. |
| 0:06.0 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:11.0 | And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. |
| 0:14.0 | Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 0:18.0 | Well, hey, it's Jay, and I periodically go around and look and see if there are some sermons |
| 0:25.6 | about sex because I get asked this question, you know, where are the good sermons about sex? |
| 0:31.4 | And we have come upon a few good ones, like from Kevin A. Thompson and some others, but I'm going to tell you, it's just not so easy |
| 0:40.8 | to find sermons that are honest and biblical and hopeful. And when I do, it surprises me, but it |
| 0:48.2 | shouldn't surprise me. Because while some Christian leaders and churches address the subject of |
| 0:53.2 | sex well. |
| 0:56.8 | Too many either mishandle it or ignore it altogether. |
| 1:01.6 | We here at the virtual table have heard the stories, good and bad. |
| 1:06.6 | And we are bringing our collective wisdom today to share what we wish more churches knew about sex and how to encourage church leaders to talk more biblically, authentically, and respectfully |
| 1:10.6 | about it. |
| 1:11.8 | We are one down, however, with Chris out today dealing with some family stuff. |
| 1:17.4 | But Bonnie and Gay are here. |
| 1:19.9 | And let's start with those bonafetes or as they call them down here in the South Bonafides. |
| 1:26.2 | What is the primary message you have heard from wives |
| 1:29.3 | about how their pastors and churches handle the topic of sex? |
| 1:33.7 | Well, I think they're probably different categories, |
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