Listen it's the virtue a lot of you guys have sent me this video the last couple of days

You sent it to me, but it's really a reminder. I think for Kristen more than anything else

For 10 years you are your child's favorite person in the world as a father as a mother and after that

They have new favorite people in the world. They have best friends. They have girlfriends boyfriend

They get married. You're never ever going to be their favorite person again

And so really what it is is it to call to arms to be there and appreciate and embrace those 10 years to stop living

The deferred happiness plan where you say like well, I'm going to work really hard now so that I can be happy when I'm 40 or 50

Because when you're 40 or 50, they're not going to be three years old anymore

They're going to be 13 and have best friends and not want to hang out with you

They're actually not going to think you are cool anymore into my whole mantra since he's been born has been I want to be super super

Present here you go. Well jokes on him because my husband and I took so long to have kids

Guess what our kid is going to be three when my husband's 50 so

Kristen hates these videos because there's so much pressure on parents now, man

Now you got to be every second present and if you're not, you're a bad parent and get they can have multiple favorite people

Like there are I had guarantee you there are adult children who would say one of my favorite people is my mom or my dad or both

Kristen if it makes you feel better, I like my parents now way more than I did when I was three

I mean because I'm more sentient

But also because I can drink with my parents now, which is a lot of fun

Thank you. All right, so did she let her mom watch their newborn while her husband was out of town?

Shouldn't be like a big old deal, right? I mean she trust mom. Yeah, so she called us up and was trying to figure out

How to navigate this situation that she really didn't have all the information for she and her husband have a newborn and

her mother-in-law watches the child constantly and

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