Hi, my name is John Kim, and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. I am so excited about today's guest and I have to say her name fast because I know I'm well

fuck it up if I don't. I actually practiced it 14 times before getting on the call with her because I am really bad with

names like embarrassing bad I'm great with faces bad with names, Dr. Alexandra Katahakis.

That might be a little bit,

I think I put a kind of a weird Korean accent on that one,

but I think it's close enough.

I think she's gonna enough I think she's going to be okay with that

we are still friends because I said her name correctly I was scared I was gonna say

like a carcass or some weird John Kimmonism. Anyway, we have a few things in common. One is we're both

MFTs and she has more letters after her name, which means she's a lot smarter than I am.

But we both went through the whole therapist's journey

and we both help each other in different ways,

but also the same, because we are therapists. She is also the same because we are therapist.

She is also the director of the Center for Healthy Sex

in Los Angeles.

And I suggest you grab a beverage because you're going to want to listen to this conversation.

You know my guest episodes are about an hour.

They're very different than my 10 minutes in a shot class

podcast episode.

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