Mistakes Can’t Hurt You if You Remember This

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2017

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

I made a colossal mistake the other day on national television. Want to hear the embarrassing story? I’ll tell you in this episode. Not just because I’ve gotten good at laughing at myself for moments like this (though I have – and that’s one of the lessons here), but because it will teach you 3 crucial things to spare you from hurt next time you make a mistake. (Which you will. Because you’re human.) And how do you deal when other people think you’re a screw-up? I give you one amazing piece of advice on how to prove them wrong.

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0:00.0	I'm Matthew Hussey and this is Love Life. If you've ever felt like you didn't know the
0:07.3	right words to say to a man to create attraction and chemistry, then you can't afford to
0:12.9	miss what I have for you at the end of today's episode. Stay tuned, because I'm going to
0:17.6	hand you five phrases that are so simple yet so powerful with men that you're going
0:22.7	to be furious at me for not giving this to you years ago.
0:27.2	I want to talk about mistakes today. Recently I made a mistake while I was on the today
0:31.9	show. Some of you know and watch. I'm on the today show every couple of weeks giving
0:36.1	advice with Kathleen Hoder and they were in front of me on this one live segment and they
0:42.1	asked me a question about what was it Valentine's Day, wasn't it? They asked me a question
0:45.5	about Valentine's Day about what this woman should do and I said, well, you know what?
0:48.8	There are three things that I always tell people on Valentine's Day. Number one, stop idealizing
0:54.1	other people's crappy relationships. Now, the great part about this was everyone laughed
0:58.8	and it kind of created this great momentum and this great atmosphere. I was off to a very
1:03.4	strong start and then I went number two and I completely forgot what number two was.
1:11.9	That's the problem, of course, with giving a certain amount of numbers on live TV is if
1:16.7	you can't think of number two and three, you're kind of screwed because you already said
1:20.2	how many you're going to say. So I got to number two and I couldn't think of it and I started
1:25.0	laughing and I said, you know what is gone? I lost it and I said, you know what it was? I was
1:28.9	laughing. I was soaking up all of the validation that I was getting from you guys laughing at
1:34.6	number one that I completely lost my train of thought. I was just basking in the glory. I said,
1:39.7	but you're going to have to move on because I forgot and we started laughing and we moved on
1:43.0	to the next question. Now, the interesting thing about this was afterwards I got a call from my
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