Matthew Hussey here with Love, Life, Quick Question for You. Do you know the nine words

that you can text a man that will make you completely irresistible to him? No, I'm

not talking about sexting. This is much more intelligent because it allows you to keep

your standard and drive him crazy with desire at the same time. I think you can guess what

it is? I'll come back to this at the end of the show today, so make sure not to miss

a minute. I want to talk today about sensitive subject rejection and a particular type of

rejection. That's when we've gotten to know someone and maybe we've been dating them

for a little while. It doesn't mean we've been in a relationship with them, although you

may have been. But just someone we've gotten a little close to and whose opinion has come

to matter to us. When this person that we hold in higher steam rejects us, that can

be really, really painful because then we say, well, that my logic says that if this

person makes smart decisions and if this person has a good eye for people and if I respect

this person, then it must mean that it was a good and smart decision and a good judgment

for them not to be with me. Now, it doesn't even matter if this person says all of the

right things because sometimes when you hold someone in higher steam, they'll say some

really sweet things to you when they say that. They'll tell you that you're an amazing

person and that they wish the same for you and that they've really enjoyed their time

with you. They'll say all of the right things. They won't have done anything wrong necessarily.

But you'll notice that none of the right things that they say make a big difference to the

pain that you feel because you still feel the reality of the fact that they decided they

didn't want you. There are a couple of things that I want you to remember about this type

of rejection. The first thing is that it can happen to anybody. It doesn't matter who

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