Matthew hustled here with Love Life. Do you ever feel like you keep attracting the wrong

kinds of men? I can understand how frustrated and hopeless this must make you feel at times.

All you want is a good guy who appreciates you and treats you well, someone who's a partner

in all of life's ups and downs. But instead, you end up with jerks, or you're not alone.

So many women come relate. I want you to smile right now because today I'm going to give

you a simple way to get rid of the jerks and only attract quality men into your life.

Before I give that to you, let's get into today's episode.

Matthew Hussie here comes into you around Valentine's Day, a day that seems like it should

be the most relevant day of the year to this show. I don't care about it one, Iota. But

I thought you might. So I'm going to give you three things that I think are important

to remember. The first one is stop comparing. Comparison is in this respect, the mother of

Valentine's Day depression. You look around, you see friends who are in relationships.

If you don't see friends who are in relationships, you see commercials constantly portraying people

in relationships and talking about gift ideas for the person that you love. And that comparison

can make us feel like we're somehow behind and that we need to catch up. Life just doesn't

work like that. We have to get out of this idea that somehow everyone else is further

along the way. And it's going to take us forever to catch up. Because do you know what is

you know what's amazing is someone could have a breakup tomorrow. And you thought they

would five years ahead of you. And they go through a breakup tomorrow and they're in the

exact same position you are. In fact, in some ways worse, because after a five year relationship,

their breakup doesn't for the moment put them at square one. It puts them in a place of

heartbreak and withdrawal where they're not even ready yet to meet someone else. Whereas

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