Managing Beyond Bad Behavior
The Look & Sound of Leadership
Essential Communications - Tom Henschel
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🗓️ 30 October 2008
⏱️ 7 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the Look and Sound of Leadership, an ongoing series of |
| 0:06.9 | executive coaching tips designed to help you be perceived in the workplace the |
| 0:10.4 | way you want to be perceived. I'm Tom Henschel, your executive coach, and today we're |
| 0:15.2 | talking about managing beyond bad behavior. Managing Ted was a nightmare for Brian. |
| 0:23.0 | Every day seemed to bring another complaint about Ted's inappropriate behavior. |
| 0:27.1 | Even people two and three levels above Brian were complaining. |
| 0:30.4 | His inability to rein Ted in was making Brian look ineffectual as a leader. |
| 0:35.1 | The problem was that Ted was exceptionally gifted and everyone knew it. |
| 0:40.9 | Brian led a team of 26 artists at a consumer products company. |
| 0:44.0 | The team's ability to create stunning designs was crucial to the company's success, |
| 0:48.0 | and none of the other artists could turn out designs like Ted. |
| 0:52.0 | So when he behaved badly, which was a great deal of the time, |
| 0:56.2 | no one wanted to challenge him too harshly. There was always the fear that Ted might make good |
| 1:00.3 | on his constant threat to quit this crap factory. |
| 1:05.0 | Brian, himself an accomplished artist, had become a vice president by being super agreeable. |
| 1:11.0 | Now this friendly conflict-averse guy had to contend with Ted. Whenever Brian tried to give him |
| 1:16.6 | feedback, Ted quickly sabotaged the conversation with any number of tactics. I wanted Brian to have a tool that would stand up in the face of |
| 1:25.1 | whatever Ted would throw at him, so I taught him a technique I call repeated |
| 1:29.6 | headlines. You can use this technique in any situation when the following two factors are present. |
| 1:35.4 | Number one, the situation is hard to measure, meaning it's not something easily quantifiable |
| 1:40.2 | like missing deadlines or sarcastic emails. And number two, the situation is ongoing. |
| 1:46.4 | When I say repeated headlines can be used in any situation that has those two factors, I mean |
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