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Brunch with Desb Podcast

MAKING FRIENDS IS HARD / The Reality of Being an Adult (Ep. 18)

Brunch with Desb Podcast

Des Pfeifer

Society & Culture, Comedy, Relationships

51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 12 July 2020

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Nobody told us as kids that making friends when we become adults would be so difficult sometimes. We move, we grow, we change. We get into relationships, get married, have babies. All of this can leave friends and social relationships on the backburner. I wanted to share with you my perspective on this topic and hopefully can make you feel better about whatever situation you are in with friendships.

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(1:56) Housekeeping - Please Rate and Review!

(3:45) Baby Boy Update!

(6:07) Friends and Social Media

(10:00) My Emily’s

(12:35) Siblings

(16:46) Being Picky

(22:48) Why I Started my Instagram

(24:50) Pregnant Friends

(26:00) Losing and Outgrowing Friends

(34:30) Honesty on Social Media

(40:35) Please Share with a Friend!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Good morning, cutie. Happy Sunday. Welcome back to your favorite

0:04.2

podcast and favorite start to the week. This is Brunch with Desby. I am your

0:09.3

host Des, also known as Des B. I'm so excited to have you this Sunday. If you're new here, what the

0:15.2

fuck is up? What the fuck is up, Kyle? If you're not new here, welcome back. I'm so

0:22.0

excited to have you along for this journey on this Sunday.

0:27.0

I'm really excited because today I'm sitting down again short of breath because being pregnant is just such a blessing and I

0:35.2

started thinking about what I haven't talked about on the podcast that I really

0:39.5

wanted to cover and that is friendships as we've seen the past couple weeks in quarantine. I should say with the whole

0:50.4

call her daddy drama that that friendship blowing up,

0:54.3

as well as just going through an adult life

0:56.8

and having friends, and then not having friends.

1:02.1

You know, I want to talk about that because I think social media

1:04.4

sometimes makes it look like a lot of people have a bunch of friends or they're

1:10.5

really good at communicating etc and you might sit there and be like what do you do if you don't have a lot of friends like am I doing something wrong you know etc so I wanted to share a little bit about making friends how I'm not that good at making friends

1:27.5

what I've learned from it and also kind of the thought process that a lot of people don't dive into and that's outgrowing friends.

1:35.1

And what does that feel like and is that okay?

1:38.1

So you might be going through one of these issues right now and so I just wanted to kind of

1:42.4

bring that to light today and I want to chat a little bit about just friendships in general and give a little bit of my opinion, give a little bit of my stories, a little bit of my life.

1:51.0

So I'm very excited to have you. A few things before we get

1:54.5

started, some housekeeping. Number one as always, if you have not yet already, please review

2:00.6

this podcast on Apple Podcast.

2:03.0

Leave a five star, leave a little mushy comment, you know,

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