This is Love Life and I'm your host, Matthew Hussie.

It's so exciting to hear feedback from women who say things like,

Matt, I tried the advice from your podcast and I met someone incredible that same night.

But occasionally I'll hear something like,

when something finally starts to go right in my life,

I have trouble trusting that it's real and I just can't enjoy it.

If you can relate, I want you to stay tuned until the end of today's show

because there's something really exciting I want to share with you

that has the power to change your way of thinking forever.

But first, let's get to the episode.

Today we're going to be talking about an interesting subject of

X's and more specifically, how long does it actually take to get over an X?

And it's really difficult, especially when, you know,

I almost think the pain of a breakup is it's like that moment when you're sick.

And after a while, especially when you've come down with something bad

and you're laying in bed day after day after day,

you forget what it felt like to just feel normal.

You don't sit there thinking, God, I just wish I felt a million dollars tomorrow.

What you think is, I just want to feel normal again.

And I think the same happens in a breakup.

You know, sometimes we go through that and I think it is a grieving period.

We go through that grieving period for so long that we start to wonder, God,

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