What if I told you that real happiness comes from taking 100% responsibility for everything in your life?

100% responsibility. You didn't do well in school? It's your fault.

You're not happy with the current number of dollars in your

pocket. It's your fault. You don't like your job. You took it. Everything that's going on in your life,

take a hundred percent responsibility. Do you want to know why? Because there's no

power I'm blaming. You and I both know that. You can blame the government, the

weather, the city, your parents, the church, you can blame everybody.

And you know what, that does let you off the hook.

It's someone else's fault, but at the end of the day,

listen, when you're lying on your deathbed,

is that really going to matter?

Are you really going to be proud to be laying there saying, you know what?

I had 8397, 102 years and it was everybody's fault. But when you're laying on your deathbed

you want to say to yourself, you know what? I got it in my 20s, I got it in my 30s, I got it in my 60s,

and I turned it around because I finally said to myself, I'm 100% percent responsible which means you get an architect what you

want. There is never a perfect time to decide how you want your life to be. There is never a perfect time to say what is possible.

You just gotta start. You just gotta start. But I want to be clear, you can't start with like not acknowledging where you are. You have to first say I have no money

I'm totally overweight. I hate my job. I'm in a crappy relationship and you know what I am the common denominator it's all my fault

and then from there when you're really pissed when you're really upset when you're

really angry you're gonna start to make the change because we

know that's one of the driving forces we know that's one of the things that will

motivate you to get into action and then you decide what you want and be

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