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Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian Wives.

Have you heard it said that sex is a need?

We have too.

Quite a few people talk about how a spouse can and should meet their mate's sexual needs.

And today we're going to address that underlying assumption.

Is sex a need?

So let's jump right into this topic, ladies.

First question I have is, how have y'all heard sex talked about as a need?

And what does that word choice convey to you or to wives generally?

I remember in the early years that a man needed sex like he needed air.

And what does that word choice convey? If you don't give it to him, he'll die.

Yeah. sounds like the air yeah i mean my view is that it's generally portrayed as sex is a need for men and therefore wives

if you don't fulfill this need you're going to to, you know, disastrous things are going to happen.

I mean, it's almost never presented as sex is a need for people.

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