Touching Yourself, Sex Just for Fun & Erectile Problems (Answering Listener Questions)
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 23 February 2022
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
About this episode
In this episode, we're responding to questions from listeners about touching yourself during sex, whether it's okay to have sex just for fun sometimes, and why a young husband might struggle to maintain an erection.
Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Strong Wives - Bonny Burns' Coaching Site.
From the Bible
A cheerful heart is good medicine... ~ Proverbs 17:22a
Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise. ~ Jeremiah 17:14
Resources
- Solo Masturbation? - The Forgiven Wife
- Masturbation: Hands On or Hands Off? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Why Sex Should Be Hot, Holy, and Humorous - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Is Sex a Spiritual Experience in Your Marriage? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Dealing with Erection Problems - The Forgiven Wife
- Searchable Database for Certified Sexual Addiction Therapists (CSAT)
- Covenant Eyes Blog - information on pornography addictions and sexually problematic behavior
- Hope For Wives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal through a Christian Lens - podcast
- Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Episode 118: Sex Is For You, Too - previous podcast
- RAINN - Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
- Q&A with J: "He Goes Hard and Then Soft" - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Are you at a loss not knowing where to turn after finding your husband is viewing pornography? |
| 0:07.0 | If so, you're not alone. Many confused wives suffer in silence. This is Bonnie, and I can help you find clarity in this traumatic situation. |
| 0:16.0 | As a betrayed partner, I completely understand what you're going through. |
| 0:28.3 | As an APSATS trained credentialed coach, I walk with betrayed partners every day toward healing from the impact of sexual betrayal. |
| 0:35.8 | You can learn more about how I can help you and book an appointment if you choose at strongives.com. |
| 0:52.1 | Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:54.6 | I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. |
| 0:57.2 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:59.7 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 1:02.6 | And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. |
| 1:06.2 | Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 1:14.5 | Well, here we are again with sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 1:18.9 | Last time, we had such a great time with our fifth anniversary episode. |
| 1:21.9 | If you have not listened to that, we encourage you to go back and listen to it. |
| 1:26.2 | And after you've done that, we also have some video if you head to our website. |
| 1:29.1 | And you can see the behind the scenes recording. And today we going to take though a little more serious tone and answer some listener questions |
| 1:33.4 | we do get feedback from y'all we read those questions that you ask us and we want to bring |
| 1:39.7 | those up and answer what we can so i guess we'll jump in. Who's got the first question that we're |
| 1:45.3 | tackling? I do. The question is short and to the point I have been reading through and I'm |
| 1:50.9 | confused on something. Masturbation is a no-no, but a few positions instructions say for the woman to |
| 1:56.8 | stimulate herself or her husband to see. Is this all right? |
| 2:07.2 | Masturbation is not necessarily a no-no. So I'd say first of all, that premise may need to be explored a little bit more. When we talk about masturbation, we're talking about sexually |
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