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Goes Without Saying
SEPHY AND WING
4.9 • 695 Ratings
🗓️ 3 November 2025
⏱️ 54 minutes
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podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on dating your co-worker, paying for first-dates, controlling men, and david harbour.
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| 0:00.0 | Goes Without Saying. You're listening to Goes Without Saying with Sethi and Wing. I'm Wing. |
| 0:06.0 | And I'm Sethi. This is a spooky, spooky ebb. But the horror stories are never ending. It's always relevant. |
| 0:13.5 | Dating is always insane. And men are always, from what we can see, pretty shit. We're talking, we're covering some ground here. |
| 0:20.5 | There's some elements of like controlling, bizarre alarm bell, red flag, |
| 0:25.6 | sorts of behaviours and how to kind of deal with that in the real world. |
| 0:29.6 | There was some very intriguing power dynamics and again, it feels very grounded in the real world of like, |
| 0:35.6 | these men walk among us. |
| 0:36.6 | These are people that we |
| 0:38.1 | see live with work with that we know this is a funny one and also i feel like goes to some very |
| 0:44.0 | real places if you enjoy it thanks for being here bye hello hello this is um right on time |
| 0:53.8 | this is the day before Halloween that we're recording this now. Yeah, so some may say, maybe when I say right on time, I mean cutting it fine. Early. No, no, we're early. We're early. Oh, okay, okay. Yeah. It feels good. It doesn't feel bad. Yeah, I'm excited. We've got some spooky messages. They're extremely... Horrifying. |
| 1:12.7 | Yeah, really horrifying. Very spooky stuff. Very, very, very spooky stuff. How are you feeling? |
| 1:17.8 | Are you feeling quite spooked at the moment? Are you having any dating horror stories of your own? |
| 1:22.0 | I am having no dating horror stories. God, I am not dating at the moment at all. I think that's probably for the best. Am I |
| 1:27.5 | having any dating horror stories? I'm hearing them, left, right and centre. I'm just feeling really, |
| 1:32.6 | really uncompelled to date currently. I think it's, I actually think that is probably the best |
| 1:39.6 | case scenario considering the intensity of some recent events. Wait, so shall, well, I think let's |
| 1:46.6 | get into it in a proper next episode. Like, this is like a, you know, we're doing dating |
| 1:50.6 | horror stories here. Yeah. I've had concussion. That wasn't what I meant, but yeah. Have been |
| 1:54.8 | concussed. What did you mean? I just meant like there was some really consuming. Oh God. There was just a big consuming. Yeah, yeah. There was some stuff going on. There's been stuff going on. I'm, which have led me to feel, what is it, uncompelled to date. You've decented men. Unintentionally. No, no, men have been decensored. Yeah. But they've always just been slightly to the left. You know, they've just been over there. |
| 2:17.8 | Yeah. |
| 2:19.1 | I've been always lurking. |
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