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After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

I Had Big Questions About Kids & Social Media. So I Went Straight to Meta.

After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

Dear Media and Big Little Feelings

Big Little Feelings, Kids & Family, After Bedtime With Big Little Feelings, Deena Margolin, Kristin Gallant, After Bedtime, Parenting

4.55.8K Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

I’ll be honest: I have a hard time with the idea of kids on social media. And still… the reality is: Teens (and preteens) are being pulled into this world, and parents are left trying to make sense of it. So, we sat down with Meta to find the safest way to protect our kids in these social media times.


In this conversation, Kristin interviews Tara Hopkins (Global Director of Public Policy at Instagram/Meta — and a mom of two teens) and asks the questions parents actually have about Teen Accounts, content exposure, messaging, time limits, AI, and what “safety” really means in a world of short-form dopamine loops.


Full disclosure, this episode isn't going to leave you saying, “social media is perfect.” But, if you've already given your child Instagram, if you're curious what limits you can place for your kid begging for social media, or you know someone in the thick of it, you'll walk away knowing *exactly* what you can, and can't do, to protect your kid online, which is exactly what I hoped.


This is an information-forward, real-world conversation for parents who want to understand:


• What Instagram Teen Accounts actually are and what happens inside them

• What protections are in place for teens (and where parents can take a step further) 

• How Meta approaches sensitive content and teen safety

• How time limits, sleep settings, and parental permissions work

• Where AI fits into all of this


My hope is simple: more clarity, less spiraling. Whether you’re firmly in the “no social media” camp, already navigating it with your teen, or you can feel the pressure creeping in… this episode gives you a clearer picture of what’s being built, how to use parameters that already exist, and what questions still deserve answers.


Disclaimer: you have to be 13+ to use Meta platforms


For access to more helpful tools and expert guidance, parents can visit https://familycenter.meta.com.

● Instagram Teen Accounts —now inspired by 13+ movie ratings—are designed to give parents peace of mind that their teens are safer with the right protections in place. Learn more about Instagram Teen Accounts at https://about.fb.com/news/2025/10/instagram-teen-accounts-pg-13-ratings/

● Support your family’s online experience with expert guidance and tools from Meta’s Family Center. Explore resources today, including Meta’s Screen Smart Program, at https://familycenter.meta.com.


This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.


 Produced by Dear Media

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a dear media production.

0:05.0

Welcome back to another episode of After Bedtime.

0:08.0

I can say that I have been looking forward to this episode for quite a few weeks,

0:12.7

maybe even quite a few months.

0:14.8

I, Besties, as you know, have a nine-year-old.

0:17.6

We are navigating the world of, Mom, I want a phone. This friend has a phone,

0:23.9

social media, what are you doing? TikTok, Roblox, Instagram, Snapchat. We're tiptoeing. We're not there

0:30.8

yet, but it's certainly something that is always on my mind. And what we are noticing is it's

0:36.3

always on your mind, too. Whether you have a teen,

0:39.6

whether you have a preteen, whether you have a toddler, we are all in an age where we're

0:44.2

thinking about social media and how to go about this new technology sort of childhood

0:50.7

preteen world that we just didn't grow up in. So today, I'm sitting down with an

0:56.5

incredible woman, Tara Hopkins from Meta, and I can't wait for you to hear our conversation.

1:03.0

It's going to make you feel a lot better, I promise, and it's going to make you feel more informed.

1:07.7

That way, we're not just sitting here spiraling. I don't know, like I was last night.

1:18.8

Here we go. Welcome to after bedtime, where the house is finally quiet, but the real noise begins.

1:24.3

The thoughts, the questions, the wondering if you're doing any of this right. We're Kristen and Dina, child behavior experts, moms, and co-founders of big little feelings.

1:29.3

And we're not here to give you more pressure or perfect parenting energy.

1:32.7

Nope. We're here to tell the truth, the unfiltered, beautiful, brutal truth about what it means to raise kids and re-raise ourselves in the process.

1:42.2

Because parenting isn't just about sleep schedules and snack

1:45.0

hacks. It's about healing. It's about breaking cycles. It's about becoming the kind of adult you want

1:50.8

your kids to grow up to be. This is the place where we say the quiet parts out loud, and we're so

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