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The Angry Therapist Podcast

How to Shift Into an Attracting Life

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 29 December 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

In this lesson, we explore how to move from a life shaped by fear, dread, shame, and survival into a life built on joy, creativity, presence, gratitude, and alignment. You’ll learn how to pull yourself out of lower frequencies, design a safe life container, and step into an attracting state — where the right people, opportunities, and experiences naturally find you. This is how you stop forcing your life… and start receiving it. 🌟 What You’ll Learn: What “higher frequencies” actually mean How to pull yourself out of lower emotional states The difference between chasing and attracting Why joy and creativity are powerful frequency shifters How to design a daily environment that supports growth What a “life container” is and why it expands your potential How attraction energy rewrites your relationships and opportunities 📘 Read John’s new book in progress Sh*t Your Therapist Would Never Tell You on John’s SubStack ⁠HERE⁠ If you’re ready for deeper work, the Secure Self course is available HERE Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

It's not just knowing what the frequencies are, it's the ability to pull yourself out of a lower frequency and live on a higher one when you dip.

0:11.0

Now, the way that you do that is on you. So it could be a motorcycle ride. It could be a workout. It could be meditation. It could be anything, you know.

0:20.0

It could be just going for a walk or getting yourself in nature or outside.

0:24.5

So whatever that looks like for you, it's important.

0:28.3

It's imperative that you have the ability to do that and to actually execute that

0:33.0

because that's what's going to help build yourself a brand new light container.

0:40.5

I'm John Kim, a licensed therapist who used to be a miserable fuck before going on a hero's journey and turning expired relationships into revelations.

0:49.0

I use my story to help others come with you instead of at you, unrehearsed on purpose, because self-help

0:56.3

doesn't have to be polished or complicated, just honest.

1:04.3

So I'm doing this lesson outside because, well, everything I do is on the go.

1:11.8

But for this lesson, because it's about dropping into your body and having the ability to pull yourself out of negative frequencies, lower frequencies, and live higher.

1:24.8

Because it's about that, I thought I would be outside. I feel more things in here than inside a room.

1:32.6

All right, so here's the story. Here's how this concept came about. I realized that I lived my life in two modes, dread and worry. And I realized after my divorce that I didn't have

1:51.1

the ability to pull myself out of those states. And so every day, and this is probably why

1:58.1

many of my relationships have ended, or at least it contributed to that, right?

2:03.1

I woke up, went to the coffee shop, wrote for hours grinding, hoping to sell the million-dollar screenplay.

2:12.0

Because if I did, then I would have money and success, and I would be happy.

2:18.7

And so every day was this grind.

2:21.8

And of course I wasn't happy because I wasn't able to produce joy or I didn't allow myself to.

2:27.1

I didn't allow myself to be happy.

2:28.8

I was just grinding.

2:30.8

And of course with grinding comes a lot of anxiety, comes wondering if you're ever going to get to the island, comes just a lot of being in worry, dread, living like the sky is going to fall every day.

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