Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. Before I talk

about how to not drift in your relationship, just a quick reminder, if you are not getting my daily text, you should check it out.

It's five bucks a month, which I don't think is a lot and that that goes to

sending out thousands of texts and what that costs. But also getting help in what I want to text and of course the Google Docs at the end of the

week that we send out all of that so it's not just random. They're thematic and people are saying they really love

waking up with a reminder or a different mindset or on Mondays I do a daily challenge and it kind of sets

up for the day so check that out if you want just go to my website dangery

therapist.com or my Instagram at the angry therapist.

Let's now talk about how to not, the not is in all caps,

drift in your relationship.

So I think a lot of people assume and I was included in this demographic demographic I don't know I was included in this bunch and it's basically that when you, you know,

if things are good, then that, you know,

drift shouldn't happen, right?

Like if things are good, then you should trust the good

and everything will be free flowing right I mean yes there will be a

conflict and arguments and all of that but that drift doesn't occur and it's actually

not true so what happens is first you have to

create something safe and this is like you know the the beginning or part one or the soil

the relationship has to to live in a safe space safe space or drift will naturally

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