Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

All right listen I'm not going to tell you what you've heard before which is in order to make sense of your life

you have to find your purpose your passion and then chasing that is going to align your life and you're going to be happy.

There is truth to the traction you get from hanging a life on meaning and by meaning I mean a sense of purpose sure absolutely but we hear that so much I

think it's now backfiring because people who don't believe or are in a place where they haven't found what their purpose is,

then they just get more depressed, right? They feel like there's something wrong with them. And by the way,

I don't think purpose is a one-time thing. I don't think it's, you have one purpose in your life. I think we have many purposes, depending on where we're at and all our chapters, right?

I, even though I quote-unquote, failed as a screenwriter,

I feel that at that point in my life, that was my purpose.

And through that, I learned how to write I taught myself

discipline I you know it created a space for me to be creative like Like I did all these things that paid off later.

And so sometimes purpose comes disguised and you think

that it's not your purpose and then as you look back and in the future you realize oh that

needed to happen it was it was one of the dominoes right so anyway here's what I

believe when it comes to this question,

how do I make sense of my life?

My answer is this.

You don't have to make sense of your life

now this doesn't mean that you just do nothing or you can do whatever the fuck you want

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