that it's less about the goal.

It's about the person that you have to become

in order to achieve the goal.

If you decide to be a person that measures the progress

versus the perfection of the goal,

it's reorienting your focus and where focus goes, energy flows.

Focus determines emotion.

And emotion determines decisions and the decisions determine actions and actions will

determine the results.

And so it all starts very simply with, okay,

how can I start to reorient my metric for success

to be less about the outcome and be more about the step. If I can be focused on whatever that step may be, maybe it's in

dating, can I be more focused on, you know what, I talk to the guy or not. Regardless of the

outcome, I can give myself that you you know what? You took a shot.

All right, everyone, special guest today. I get so happy and

not, I have personal friends on the show. You heard me say this before and not coincidentally. I bring them all on the show because I've surrounded myself with such crazy, beautiful, purposeful, really aligned people. And these are people who are making differences in the world.

Now George U.A. is a life and leadership coach and when we drop into

conversations we drop into conversations. We are talking about the dynamics of

relationships, how a man shows up, how safety is created in a relationship,

what happens when it's not there, how the relationship can degrade, and how we can prevent our relationship from degrading.

There's actually steps that we can do.

There's awareness that we can bring to better our relationships, bring ourselves closer in these

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