So when you first start going out with somebody curious here, like at what point do you get

comfortable enough with them where you're like, okay, they're safe, we can go on a road

trip together.

All right.

There's a real slippery slope here.

And you know, it's a friend of mine and she's been seeing a guy for two months casually

dating like they don't have labels, they're not even like dating, they go out on dates.

And I know I'm one to talk because I move super fast with my now husband, like bam,

bam, bam.

And moving in.

So I get it.

There's some people you meet and there's a connection and that's just how life unfolds

for you and that works.

But my friend who has been going on dates with this guy for two months is planning a road

trip down the Pacific coast highway.

He's planning it and has invited her to go on this road trip.

And my thing is like, it's cool to be a serial data, but he might be a serial killer.

And so I don't want her to take this trip because I think it's really dangerous.

Because she's smitten and she's like, I really like this guy.

So I'm like googling him, bringing up stuff.

I'm like, do you know he has a kid?

Did he tell you that?

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