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How do I start a support group?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lgbtq, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Transgender, Gay, Lds, Mormon, Lgbt, Church Of Jesus Christ, Faith, Latter-day Saint, Christ, Society & Culture

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2021

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Charlie and Ben go through the logistics of starting a local LDS/LGBTQ+ support group with Michelle Sherwin and Byron Korth, who recently started a successful group in their home Stake.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions from the Closet. I'm Charlie Bird, and I'm Ben Shalatti. Each episode we discuss a question that we commonly get asked is LGBTQ

0:07.6

larity scenes. We're not trying to answer this question or come to a consensus, but simply sharing our perspectives. Today's question is, how do I start a support group?

0:16.0

Charlie and I are not terribly diverse and we share many opinions of life experiences. For example, neither of us have had any piercings.

0:22.0

However, there are some pretty big differences. For example, Ben has this scar on his upper lip and it looks exactly like he had a pierce.

0:29.0

I swear, everyone thinks I've had it. I had it in my lip pierced, which is not true at all.

0:34.0

Well, the first time I met Ben, he was giving me advice and talking about churchy things. I'm like, oh my gosh, this guy must have...

0:41.0

By the way, this is like judgy five years ago, and I was like, he must have a really wild past, and he took out his piercing when he came back to church.

0:50.0

I was just like making assumptions, and then I was like, why would he get a piercing there? It's like the weirdest spot.

0:56.0

So this has happened literally dozens of times. Someone will talk to me and they'll be like, I'm so sorry if this is rude, but...

1:02.0

Did you put your shirt lip a while ago? It's happened dozens of times.

1:06.0

I kind of want you to get a pierce just to see what it would look like.

1:08.0

No, I have a scarf when I was like 15. I had this really terrible black head and I left a divot in my lip.

1:14.0

It's from a zit?

1:16.0

Oh my gosh.

1:18.0

It's much worse.

1:20.0

And when I was in Mexico on my mission, these teenage girls that we were teaching thought that it was funny that I had had a piercing.

1:27.0

That's what they thought, and they gave me like a fake one to put on there, so we like put it on and see what it looked like, and it did not look good.

1:32.0

If you did get a piercing, what would you get?

1:34.0

I don't think I would get a piercing.

1:36.0

I guess it was like a tattoo question.

1:38.0

No, I know what I'd get if I got a tattoo, but I wouldn't get a piercing.

1:40.0

Should we say that for another episode?

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