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What hurtful things do Church members say?

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All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 February 2021

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

This week Ben and Charlie are joined by T.J. Thomas, a therapist who identifies as bisexual, for a conversation about hurtful things that well-meaning members of The Church of Jesus Christ might say to an LGBTQ+ individual. They also have a discussion about bisexuality and what it's like for T.J. to be a male, bisexual, Latter-day Saint.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions from the Closet. I'm Ben Shalatti and I'm Charlie Bird each episode

0:04.6

We discuss a question that we commonly get asked as LGBTQ Latter-day Saints

0:08.1

We're not trying to answer this question or come to consensus, but simply sharing our perspectives

0:12.3

Today's question is what hurtful things do church members say?

0:15.8

Ben and I are not terribly diverse and we share many opinions on life experiences

0:19.6

For example, we both have a lot of BYU swag

0:23.1

However, there are swag swag ass in like close

0:30.0

His walk across gave us with best swag

0:34.4

Okay, however, there are some pretty big differences

0:36.6

For example, we both have different kinds of swag once again free BYU stuff not swagger

0:43.2

Yeah, so my most recent BYU swag they give these

0:47.3

Like they give gifts Christmas gifts to all the employees

0:49.9

And you could like pick some and there was like this like book or like a puzzle

0:53.4

And I was like I'll take the free water bottles and the beanies because I would use those

0:57.2

You're always sporting water bottle. Mine are all like Nike sweats and sweatsuits and sweatshirts and shoes and

1:03.7

Athletic gear how a lot of Nike gear for you. I would love some BYU like athletic gear

1:08.4

Everything I own is blue now because everything I wear to the gym is like free shirts

1:11.6

I got from like

1:12.9

Some event I went to a BYU speaking of free shirts. I don't know who I'm going to offend in my program

1:17.6

Sorry whoever designed that shirt that I hate but the social work program gave me this shirt and I hate it

1:22.3

And I got it and I was like I will never

1:24.8

Ever wear this shirt and then the next day I come over and Ben's wearing the shirt. I actually really like it

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