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All Out in the Open

Can I be in a relationship and stay in the Church?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 February 2021

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Charlie and Ben are joined by Summer Lee-Corry for a conversation about what it's like to attend worship services while in a relationship that is not sanctioned by the Church.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions from the Closet. I'm Ben Shalatti.

0:08.4

And I'm Charlie Bird. Each episode we discuss a question that we commonly get asked as LGBTQ

0:13.6

Latter-day Saints. We are not trying to answer this question or come to a consensus,

0:16.9

but simply sharing our perspectives. Today's question is, can I be in a relationship and stay in the

0:21.7

church? Ben and I are not terribly diverse and we share many opinions and life experiences.

0:26.8

For example, our books are almost exactly the same length. However, there are some pretty big

0:31.4

differences. My book is chronological and Charlie's is not. That's true. Actually, my mom is the one

0:36.5

who texted me. She just finished reading your book, Ben. And she's like, did you know that the

0:39.7

page count is exactly the same? And I was like, no, I didn't. I knew. I think mine's like maybe

0:46.9

two pages longer. Well, well, Kathy would know better. Yeah, I tried to two up me. Yeah, so mine

0:53.1

switches. I don't know. Is this like sterile? We're just talking about a book's bio books. They're

0:57.2

really good. But or just read them. I don't know. Can we start over? I hate this. Just keep going

1:02.8

whatever. Keep it in. Well, I think your book had a really interesting structure where like each

1:07.6

chapter was like, there was like a story and then like a teaching chapter story teaching chapter.

1:11.7

I was like blended all of mine together. Yeah. But like mine makes more sense linearly because

1:16.1

I've had like a longer life. So it was like more to say more to talk about. Yeah. We was like,

1:21.9

I was gay. And here are my thoughts. Well, speaking of thoughts, we like to provide a variety of

1:29.8

voices and perspectives and thoughts. So today, we're joined by Summer Lee Corey. Hello. Okay,

1:35.1

so Summer, tell us a little bit about yourself. For sure. So I'm from Hawaii originally and I grew

1:40.5

up there. I have two elder sisters. They both attended BYU. So I ended up coming over to Utah

1:47.9

to Provo area to go to BYU. I'm still in school right now. I'm now at UVU. I'm studying exercise

1:54.8

science to become a pelvic floor therapist in the near future. So what on earth does that mean?

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