The virtue I so if he or she is demanding that you clear your social media of all pictures

from X's isn't a big old red flag or not who's got the email I got a trigger warning briefly

mentions domestic abuse hey virtue welcome Abby P1 here needing some help I'm a divorced

mom who has recently re entered the dating world previously I was in a relationship that

started in 2005 until the divorce in 2018 now with nearly 20 years of that public history

on social media in two kids later I've been seeing someone new for several months the divorce

was the result of a domestic violence situation so I prefer to remain anonymous since the quote

unquote someone new found out the reason for the divorce he understandably finds it difficult

to comprehend how I can have such a peaceful relationship with my ex after everything he's done I

refused to allow my ex to steal my peace and I have to co-parent with him so I'm just living

my life and not dwelling on how he treated me in the past anyway Facebook memories have created

a bit of an issue today I posted a few of my family and kids nothing with the ex and he sent

me a picture from that same day that I didn't share of me and my ex jokingly asking if I was going

to share that one too I didn't find it amusing issue number one that post was from 2010 I saw the

memory but didn't share it meaning he really went that far back through my history to get the

screenshot okay just hit pause but I want you to fully understand with this man did she shared a

memory on her Facebook page from 2010 he went to her Facebook page had to scroll and scroll and

scroll all the way back to 2010 to to save a picture of her and her husband to text it to her

and say hey are you going to share this one too yeah it's a problem that's a problem that's a big

problem right there red flag I mean we've all stalked our new love interest on social right not

back to 2010 but maybe I just feel like it's the actual admitting it part that would make me feel

crazy for the record I don't think he's crazy but I do think he's torturing himself

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