Grow the Attraction in Your Marriage with Special Guest Kimberly Beam Holmes | Ep. 515
Awesome Marriage Podcast
Dr. Kim Kimberling
4.9 • 813 Ratings
🗓️ 28 June 2022
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
Can you grow your attraction to your spouse, or is it destined to grow stale over time? Today's special guest Kimberley Beam Holmes explains that attraction is a process. Following this process will increase your attraction in marriage, but stopping it will lead to a stagnant and stale attraction. Learn how to follow the attraction process that you can follow at any time in marriage.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast, a place for honest conversations and practical advice on how to build an awesome marriage. |
| 0:09.9 | I am your podcast producer and co-host, Lindsay Few. |
| 0:13.4 | On the show will be our host, Dr. Kim Kimberly. |
| 0:17.0 | Dr. Kim is a marriage counselor and has been married for over 50 years. |
| 0:21.8 | His passion is to help you strengthen your most intimate relationship. |
| 0:30.6 | Well, Kimberly, thank you so much for taking time to be on Lost in Marriage Podcasts today. |
| 0:34.8 | I welcome you and just excited to spend this time with you today. |
| 0:39.3 | Thank you so much for having me on, Dr. Kim. I'm excited to be with you and your audience. |
| 0:43.2 | Oh, we've got, they're just going to love everything we're talking about today. So let's kind of |
| 0:47.7 | jump right in to you've said that falling in love doesn't just happen. What do you mean by that? |
| 0:54.9 | Yeah, great question. |
| 0:56.2 | There's actually a process to falling in love. |
| 0:58.6 | And it's one of the things that we talk about a lot at Marriage Helper. |
| 1:01.2 | And a lot of people don't realize that falling in love really is a process. |
| 1:06.4 | It's not just about finding, just happening upon the right person. You can fall in love with anyone, |
| 1:15.4 | but the ideal is that you fall in love with a person who is great for you and shares your |
| 1:19.5 | same beliefs and values. So falling in love is a process. If you follow the process, |
| 1:23.7 | you can fall in love. But if you stop, if you stop following the process, then you can |
| 1:28.5 | actually fall out of love even if you don't mean to. And that's a big one, especially for married |
| 1:34.2 | couples to realize and understand. A lot of the problems that begin to come up after you get |
| 1:38.9 | married is a lot of times because one or both of the spouses have stopped following that process |
| 1:45.2 | and they begin to fall out of love with each other. Yeah. So talk a little bit more of what is |
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