Here, Bertia.

All right, so I have heard through the grapevine that a girl of a friend of mine is doing

something that I think is really kind of dangerous.

I understand why she's doing it because of past history but I think she is putting herself and

she is putting the dudes that she is going out with in danger okay so she has a

history in odd history of dating guys that have an aggressive behavior, like not violence necessarily just jealous toxic

possessive dudes okay and she can't really understand why it's happening, but it's happening so often that it is sort of for whatever reason her type.

Now you don't know this when you go into the relationship but she finds out and all of them have like the same thing in common where they are just overly protective, aggressive and jealous.

And it has gotten to a point and it's gotten so serious in some of these relationships

that she is really gun-shy, that she just doesn't have the right antenna to be able to identify

it anymore. So her way of handling it now is on a first or

second date when she's out with the dude. She will purposely flirt with other guys to see she will they are out. It feels so dangerous to me. I don't think it's a really healthy way to

kick off a relationship either. I know where she's coming from. I get it.

I can see where she's coming from. got some baggage here so her idea is look let me

kind of test this guy without him even being known without him knowing that he's

being tested and at least I can save myself time in the long run.

Well I don't even see what the wind would be there because like you're hoping that the

guy would just not care and that that would be him passing the test if he kind of just

was like oh whatever.

Yeah just sit with him in traffic for like an hour

and see what happens.

To me, he's the better option.

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