Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.

Welcome to another episode of sex chat for Christian wives.

Today, we are getting back to the foundations of sexual intimacy.

We realize our listeners have varied experiences and some of you may value knowing some basic

principles of sexual intimacy from a physical and an emotional

perspective.

So ladies, what are some physical aspects about sexual intimacy that wives may wish they

had known going into a sexual relationship with their husbands?

I wish I had known how messy sex was.

I had no idea. And I was so relieved when one of my friends told me,

yeah, we just keep a roll of paper towels next to the bed because I just didn't know. And so I thought

there was something wrong with us or that we weren't doing it right because it didn't all stay

inside. I wish I'd known how prevalent bladder and urinary tract infections can be if you do

not care for yourself down there properly, especially using the bathroom afterward. I was kind of

embarrassed with the idea that we would finish and then I would need to go to the bathroom. But that's

very important. And it's important also to do things like not use a lot of scented

soaps down there and things that can irritate the area. So I think that would have been

useful information. I think that some wives may value knowing that a man takes typically,

typically takes five to seven minutes to ejaculate, you know, reach orgasm and

ejaculate. However, there are some, especially young husbands who may prematurely ejaculate,

which means that it might just be barely entering you and he reaches climax.

That can get better with time and with some different techniques.

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