Flirting with Your Husband, with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 6 April 2022
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
With Bonny out again, we're down one wife today, but we've invited not one but two other wives to join us at today's virtual kitchen table. We're so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, co-authors of The Flirtation Experiment, with us to discuss how flirting with your husband can lead to greater intimacy in marriage and the bedroom. Be sure to check out their book!
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This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics.

This episode is also sponsored by Married Dance.
From the Bible
What does the Bible say about flirting?
You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride;
you have stolen my heart
with one glance of your eyes,
with one jewel of your necklace.
Song of Songs 4:9
His mouth is sweetness itself;
he is altogether lovely.
This is my beloved, this is my friend,
daughters of Jerusalem.
Song of Songs 5:16
And the rest of Song of Songs!
Resources
- The Flirtation Experiment: Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage by Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer
- Lisa Jacobson | Club31Women
- Phylicia Masonheimer | Every Woman a Theologian
- Honest Marriage Episode 9 // On Flirtation | Phylicia Masonheimer
- Did You Know That God Loves a Good Romance? - Club31Women
- The Flirtation Experiment - 6 Fun Ways to Rekindle Your Marriage - Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- 7 Fun & Flirty Take-Turns Games to Play with Your Spouse - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- How to Feel Attractive - Real Beauty and Confidence for Real Women - Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Flirt with your Husband (12 SFW text messages) • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- How to Flirt with Your Husband | The Forgiven Wife
- The Misunderstood Science of Sexual Desire | The Cut (Rosemary Basson and responsive desire)
- Identifying a Facial Expression of Flirtation and Its Effect on Men: The Journal of Sex Research: Vol 58, No 2 (tandfonline.com)
- Elvis Presley - Burning Love (hunka hunka ~wink~)
- Episode 41: Flirting with Your Husband
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This episode is sponsored in part by Married Dance. Married Dance is a Christian-owned sex shop |
| 0:05.1 | that has helped tens of thousands of couples add intimacy to their marriage beds. Featuring a range |
| 0:09.7 | of sex position information, adult toys, lingerie, lube, and more. All Married Dance products |
| 0:15.1 | are displayed nudity-free with marriage-focused and informative descriptions. Thank you, Married |
| 0:19.8 | Dance. Welcome to Sex Chat for |
| 0:23.4 | Christian Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:29.6 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot, Holy, and Humorous. And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. Come up your chair to |
| 0:35.9 | our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 0:40.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. With Bonnie out again, we are down one wife today, |
| 0:45.4 | but we've invited not one but two other wives to join us at today's virtual kitchen table. |
| 0:51.0 | We are so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Felicia Masonheimer, co-authors of the |
| 0:56.3 | Flirtation Experiment, with us to discuss how flirting with your husband can lead to greater intimacy |
| 1:01.7 | in marriage and the bedroom. Thanks for being here, Lisa and Felicia. Yeah, thanks for having us. |
| 1:06.8 | Yes, thank you. And can you just tell us a little bit about how your book came together? |
| 1:12.4 | Well, it really started with an actual experiment that I did on my husband. |
| 1:18.7 | I decided that because we were in a pretty stressful season, we were not romantic partners as much as we were coworkers who were just getting through the day. |
| 1:30.7 | And I started thinking like while watching a Hallmark movie actually, why do we have all of this |
| 1:37.6 | excitement and mystery and romance at the beginning of a relationship? And then as time goes on, |
| 1:42.9 | even though you have a guy, you don't have that |
| 1:46.3 | anymore. Like, why does familiarity have to ruin that? So I did a bunch of research into what constitutes |
| 1:53.1 | flirting or what causes attraction in those early stages of dating. And I thought, well, if it works |
| 2:00.5 | when you're dating, why can't it work when |
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