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Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Feeling Confident in the Bedroom, Finding a Therapist & Viewing Oral Sex Differently (Listener Questions)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Christian, Marriage, Sexuality, Sex, Wives, Health & Fitness

4.6848 Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we tackle listener questions—specifically how to feel more confident in the bedroom by choosing something positive to wear, how to find a therapist in your area or online, and how to mentally shift from seeing oral sex as “dirty” to something married couples can (if they both want) do.

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From the Bible

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Song of Songs 2:3

Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. Song of Songs 4:16

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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth.

0:06.0

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages? I'm Bonnie Burns of strong wives.

0:12.6

I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. And I'm Jay Parker, of Hot, Holy and Humorous. Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. Welcome to another

0:24.4

episode of Sex Chat for Christian Wives. You know, we realize that it's been several months since we've

0:30.7

had a listener question episode. So today we are going to brighten your day with a listener question episode.

0:39.0

And perhaps your question will be the one that we're talking about.

0:42.7

So we're just going to dive right in.

0:44.7

And Jay, what question are we answering from the pile that you've picked?

0:48.7

Okay.

0:49.4

So this one comes in from a mother who says, I am a postpartum mama and I'm looking for confidence in the

0:58.4

bedroom. I have such a consciousness about my postpartum body. And then she explains that she has

1:03.7

gone up three sizes since she's been having kids. And she said her husband being very young is

1:09.2

always in the mood. But the only way I feel comfortable is if I'm wearing lingerie, sometimes even a t-shirt.

1:15.1

Now none of my pre-pregnancy lingerie fits, but I have no clue where to look for some nice laundry

1:20.0

without having to look at a ridiculous amount of almost naked women posing provocatively.

1:24.4

And all the laundry she'd had before was gifted at a bridal shower. And she's looking

1:29.0

for suggestions of where she and her husband can look online so that she can feel better about her

1:34.2

body in the bedroom. We are very fortunate in this day and age to have access to online shopping

1:41.2

that is safe. You know, there is a lot that's out there that's hard to find, you know, hard to navigate without seeing things you really don't want to see, but we do have some links we can share for honoring intimates and mentionables that have safe images and lots to choose from.

2:00.0

So if you're just looking for a place to shop, those are some good

2:03.7

places. But I think it's also really important to think about how you feel pretty. And, you know,

2:10.9

I was plus size our whole marriage, but there certainly were times when I felt more comfortable

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