Expectations In Dating

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2023

⏱️ 22 minutes

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In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage.

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Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own
0:04.3	rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life
0:08.9	lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose
0:16.2	because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.
0:21.9	Is it okay to be with a partner that you don't feel infatuated with?
0:26.6	Uh, define infatuation.
0:29.6	Well, I can't. I didn't ask the question.
0:31.6	What's your definition of infatuation? Because to me
0:34.6	infatuation sounds honeymoon, it sounds kind of like early stages. I don't know is
0:40.2	is infatuation sustainable? Is it something that can happen throughout their relationship?
0:46.4	Well, I actually would, I hate to be like a Debbie Downer, but I don't think that infatuation does last an entire relationship. I mean you're going to be
0:54.8	attracted and you're going to have moments but I don't I don't think the idea of infatuation that is a very
1:00.7	strong word to me. Well, you know what I like?
1:02.8	I like that, because infatuation sounds like high school
1:06.0	to me.
1:06.7	I like that, okay, that may not last for the duration
1:11.2	of the relationship, but I think infatuation grows up I think there's
1:15.6	this like if infatuation was a cocoon as you build your relationship a
1:20.9	butterfly appears.
1:23.0	And so instead of just infatuation, which to me sounds very young.
1:30.3	Folks are like very grabby, like lose yourself in each other. It also feels like grabby like lose yourself in each other. It also feels
1:34.3	surfacey. Yeah it feels temporary. I think that the butterfly, the evolution of
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