Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

When I was in my 20s and I would see a really nice ass I would want to put my face in it and if you're a woman you might be cringing if you're a woman, you might be cringing.

If you are a heterosexual man, you're probably laughing

because you know it's true.

Now at 45, I mean, I still appreciate a nice butt, but I don't necessarily want to put my face in it, right?

Unless it's my girlfriend and there's intimacy behind it and that's a whole different conversation.

But I've always been a sexual being extremely sexual

and of course sexuality changes right but my point in saying that is I think that there's an

evolution and thank God there is

we would all just be running around trying to put

our faces in people's asses. I think there's an evolution is, you know, when we're in our 20s it's basically trial and error right and

we're pulling from what feels good so whether it's drugs or sex or money you

know people's approval.

The sun that we revolve around is pleasure and we're constantly seeking pleasure.

And the thing about pleasure is that pleasure creates more pleasure and it's like it just it's never ending and I just know growing up in Los Angeles especially

You know the entertainment business. I've seen a lot of young people

obtained success quote-unquote very fast overnight and they just want more.

And so in my 20s, I was...

The thoughts I had in my head were

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