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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 731: My Abusive Ex Broke Up With *Me*

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

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0:00.0

The internet is coaching our kids.

0:04.0

When boys hear that on repeat, it shapes how they see themselves.

0:08.0

We can't leave it to those voices.

0:10.0

We have to be louder.

0:12.0

Together with EEE, we need to coach them, guide them, back them.

0:15.0

Building our boys up every chance we get.

0:18.0

Be yourself. Back your mates.

0:20.0

Confidence comes from a vin.

0:21.1

Yes! As proud partner of the England team's EE has support and guidance to help build all

0:26.1

our voice up on and off the pitch. Search EEE Yes Boys. Welcome to Just Breakup, the podcast about

0:34.2

love, heartbreak and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra the Mulder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who's wondering why they didn't leave their abusive ex. But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. No, we are not professionals.

0:55.3

We are not trained in any of this.

0:57.3

So please take our advice as you see fit.

0:59.9

We're only here to offer our humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe

1:04.9

some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love.

1:11.0

All right.

1:11.7

Let's get into today's letter.

1:13.5

So today's letter comes from nostalgic and abandoned shipwreck survivor, whose pronouns

1:18.5

are she, they, who's writing from the jungle.

1:22.2

No, literally, I see monkeys every week.

1:25.5

Dear Sam and Sierra, and of course, Spencer and Lydia, I echo all of the things that

1:30.1

everyone says.

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